A Man Named Ron

Ever have a surprise encounter that unexpectedly influenced your career? 

In November of 2018 I was 2+ years into my career at CycleBar.  At the time, I was based in Charlotte, NC and they had flown me out to SoCal to join my peers and film some classes.

We had five rides scheduled between Friday evening and Saturday morning.  A film crew set up to capture content. Camera’s, lights, riders and multiple crew members. 

I was scheduled to teach Saturday at 8am.  I arrived earlier than usual. Sat in a chair to get hair and make up done - not the norm - but a perk thanks to the production team. 

I was equally nervous as I was excited. It was my first time teaching a full class in front of my boss and my most influential peers. I had also never had a professional film crew in class.

Out of the corner of my eye, I noticed the first rider had arrived and was filling his water bottle. He was tall with an athletic stature, and had a kind smile. He was also older. 

I walked over to introduce myself.  He told me his name is Ron. I replied with excitement, “That’s my dad’s name …” 

Ron told me that he enjoys working out. He lifts weights a couple times a week, goes for 2 mile walks and he comes to Cyclebar because it makes him feel good. 

He mentioned that he sits in the very back row and stays seated the entire class. I said “that’s great. You do you.”

Ron then said, “Oh it’s my birthday next week. The day after Thanksgiving. I will be turning 90 years old.” 

I was astonished. In a split moment my pre-class encounter with Ron effortlessly eased my nerves and gave me a sense of calmness and confidence.  

Ron gave me context. He gave me a story to tell, a way to create a stronger connection in class and he reminded me of one of my most influential people in my life, my dad Ron.  

After class, the producer came over to me with notes pulled up on his phone. He had written down sentences of all the things I said in class.  

Those sentences were featured in this Cyclebar campaign. Sentences like “It’s so much better to go for it, than to sit on the sidelines watching life pass us by …” 

I never got a picture with Ron. But I will forever be grateful for him. Unknowingly he impacted the course of my career. 

During a recent interview I was asked “What professional accomplishment are you most proud of, and how did it contribute to your personal growth?”

I thought of many.  One of which included a man named Ron 😉